20 Things I Learned in 20 Years

Since I recently turned 20 I thought I'd document and share with others what I've learned in my 20 years of life!

1. Not everyone is going to like you - and that’s ok 

2. You are responsible for your own happiness

3. Keeping quiet about things that bother you in a relationship (romantic or not) just to “keep the peace” doesn’t work 

4. You are loved so much more than you will ever know 

5. Experiences & time with family is worth more than anything money can buy 

6. Don’t bottle your emotions - it only makes things worse 

7. Being an adult is expensive! 

8. It’s ok (and even healthy) to do things alone!

9. Clothing sizes are never consistent between brands, don’t feel bad if you have to go up or down a size. 

10. Anything worth having isn’t easy

11. Love and relationships need work 

12. You’ll be happier if you stop comparing yourself to others 

13. Working hard for something makes it so much more fulfilling when accomplished rather than having it handed to you

14. You ARE allowed to say no, and others have to respect that 

15. Asking for help doesn’t make you weak 

16. The right people will accept you as you are 

17. You can’t change people 

18. Nobody is perfect, just do your best

19. Growth never happens in your comfort zone - If it scares you, go for it.

20. You are not alone!